Tuesday, 19 October 2010

Revenge






People seem to think that revenge is never the route to go... I think otherwise

Revenge...sweet or sour?

There’s no harm in a little tactful planning


A release of anger a plot to teach you a lesson, or an attack of jealousy either way revenge is a way of getting even.

Feeling a little vengeful myself for plausible reasons I thought to myself how would others deal with my situation? This is where I stumbled across a website called www.revengelady.com where thousands of women confess their acts of revenge, united in the belief that their cheating partners deserved their punishment. And I believed so to, revenge is an emotional act followed by either a methodical plot or a spare of the moment reaction; an act where the opposing other deserves to be taught a lesson, after all that’s the whole point of revenge.

Your senses are alert and you have an intension of making a change for the better. You’re ready to deal with the consequences whether they end up good or bad but the main thing is, you wanted to make an ever-lasting print on the traumatising experience and not let the opposition ever forget that.



Emotion is the biggest trigger of revenge, which can be the reason why people believe against it. At the time of you revenge your thoughts are irrational and your mind frame is not as it was, you begin to feel very passionate and in some cases your morals fly out the window. Spirals of emotions begin to form spitting out fumes of anger, jealousy, frustration, denial, disappointment and hurt.

Which cannot lead to anything good, or can it?

This brings out the flaws in the matter, the ‘cons’. A friend disclosed to me about a time a friend of hers decided to plot revenge on her cheating boyfriend by doing what he had wrongfully done to her, back to him.  Only the consequences of her actions lead to her catching an STD (obviously not a pro at master plotting) But although in this case the consequence ended up being bigger than she had anticipated, and as a result she ended up getting burnt in the process. However her reasoning didn’t change, as she felt her intentions were to level the playing field and let the other know how it felt for a loved one to be betrayed.

Which leads to question is revenge ever really worth it?


Even though the ending may not be the one you choose, it’s the thought of moral reasoning that makes you quick to respond.

Actions tied to an emotion is a serious effect, behind the lines of these plot-full stories lie sentimental beliefs that sink deep into your inner psychological behaviour patterns which leads to an emotional response.

Whenever we have a choice that is hard to make the first thing anyone will tell you is to ‘go with your gut instinct’, we trust our emotions on dependable things like love so why do we doubt it when our emotions are triggered off in an unjustly cause. And although revenge is seen as a spiteful attempt of payback, the simplicity of the idea is to truly get the opposition to realise that they have done wrong by you and they have to learn from it by your rules. 

Revenge gives you a feeling that you done what you thought was right at the time, and what the person deserved. Revenge leads to the fulfilment of moral satisfaction, fighting for something that was rightfully yours in the first place, mental satisfaction and not losing face.

Conclusion: Revenge is a dish best served with a portion of reasoning a dash of justice and a fulfilling side order of moral satisfaction.

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Opinion Piece 

Revenge...sweet or sour? 

There’s no harm in a little tactful planning 

A release of anger a plot to teach you a lesson, or an attack of jealousy either way revenge is a way of getting even. 

Feeling a little vengeful myself for plausible reasons I thought to myself how would others deal with my situation? This is where I stumbled across a website called www.revengelady.com where thousands of women confess their acts of revenge, united in the belief that their cheating partners deserved their punishment. And I believed so to, revenge is an emotional act followed by either a methodical plot or a spare of the moment reaction; an act where the opposing other deserves to be taught a lesson, after all that’s the whole point of revenge.  

Your senses are alert and you have an intension of making a change for the better. You’re ready to deal with the consequences whether they end up good or bad but the main thing is you wanted to make an ever-lasting print on the traumatising experience and not let the opposition ever forget that. 

Emotion is the biggest trigger of revenge which can be the reason why people believe 
against it.At the time of you revenge your thoughts are irrational and your mind frame is not as it was, you begin to feel very passionate and in some cases your morals fly out the window. Spirals of emotions begin to form spitting out fumes of anger, jealousy, frustration, denial, disappointment and hurt. Which cannot lead to anything good, or can it? 

This brings out the flaws in the matter, the ‘cons’. A friend disclosed to me about a time a friend of hers decided to plot revenge on her cheating boyfriend by doing what he had wrongfully done to her, back to him.  Only the consequences of her actions lead to her catching an STD (obviously not a pro at master plotting) But although in this case the consequence ended up being bigger than she had anticipated and  as a result, she ended up getting burnt in the process,. However; her reasoning didn’t change as she felt her intentions were to level the playing field and let the other know how it felt for a loved one to be betrayed. 

Which leads to question is revenge ever really worth it? 

Even though the ending may not be the one you choose, it’s the thought of moral reasoning that makes you quick to respond. 

Actions tied to an emotion is a serious effect, behind the lines of these plot-full stories lie sentimental beliefs that sink deep into your inner psychological behaviour patterns which leads to an emotional response. 

Whenever we have a choice that is hard to make the first thing anyone will tell you is to ‘go with your gut instinct’, we trust our emotions on dependable things like love so why do we doubt it when our emotions are triggered off in an unjustly cause.. And although revenge is seen as a spiteful attempt of payback, the simplicity of the idea is to truly get the opposition to realise that they have done wrong by you and they have to learn from it by your rules. 

Revenge gives you a feeling that you done what you thought was right at the time and what the person deserved. Revenge leads to the fulfilment of moral satisfaction, fighting for something that was rightfully yours in the first place, mental satisfaction and not losing face. 

Conclusion: Revenge is a dish best served with a portion of reasoning a dash of 
justice and a fulfilling side order of moral satisfaction. 

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